In 1990 I graduated in European Business (BA Hons). I then spent a year working and travelling around the world. By 1993, following two years working for a commercial bank in London, I got itchy feet again. So I got myself a job as a holiday rep in the French Alps for a global travel business. A succession of rapid promotions, and a passion for travel and adventure, lead me to spend a further six years living and working abroad. During that time I managed various overseas operations including a large Alpine chalet programme. In 1999 I returned to the UK to help integrate a newly acquired luxury ski tour operator into the larger business. In 2005 I took on the role of Managing Director of that same niche business, a position I held for two years before finally leaving corporate life in 2007 to focus on my personal life.
I began my training as a therapist in 2010. My growing interest in this area was born out of a long-standing curiosity about my own general sense of unease in the world, and a deeply personal search for autonomy and meaning. My immersion in the academic world of personal growth and development represented a significant, and immeasurably helpful, turning point in my own journey. Having qualified as a Humanistic Psychotherapeutic Counsellor (PG Dip) in 2016, and a Master of Science in Psychotherapy (MSc) in 2018, I have spent the last few years working as a psychotherapist in private practice. I have also worked for a variety of local charities and counselling agencies including Breakeven, based in Brighton, where for several years I assisted clients struggling with gambling addiction.
A key advantage of being a mature therapist (I am 53 years old) is the humility and wisdom I have gained through an examination of my own life. I first had to make sense of painful experiences and learn how to honour my own truth. I leant heavily on existential notions of freedom of choice and personal responsibility. I began to understand the importance of balancing the need to steer my own ship with the need to accept that there is much in life I cannot control. I then turned to various spiritual teachings to help me connect more deeply to the people and natural world around me. I finally emerged as a more grounded and integrated individual with a renewed sense of aliveness. An important aspect of my learning has been to acknowledge and embrace my own lunacy. In the words of philosopher, Alain de Botton, we are all a bit mad! We are not the reasonable, rational beings we like to think we are. The unconscious dimension of our existence, and our innate emotionality, dispose us to all kinds of unhelpful, if not idiotic and disastrous, acting out. Humility and a sense of humour have helped me come to terms with this along the way!